Imposing a wedding dress code can be a bit challenging. Some guests interpret different meanings from various dress codes and instructions.
For instance, a boho dress could be suitable to wear at a black-tie event such as a wedding. But the reality is that flowy designs may be a little too spontaneous and casual for a dress code that requires chic evening gowns and formal dresses.
Ultimately, if you care a lot about your future photos, setting a dress code for your themed wedding is something you must consider. That way no one will look out of place in the photographs. Although, it does not mean that it’s the end of the world when your guests show up deviating your dress code.
Key Tips On Setting The Dress Code For Your Themed Wedding
One way to help your guests choose their outfit is by telling them what is expected. You can inform your guests what to wear, but you do not want to come off as aggressive or overbearing. Ideally, you’ll be clever in your way of telling them. You are not the first bride or groom to search for the right manner to creatively explain a dress code to his or her guests.
Here are 10 ways you can set the dress code and provide your guests with dress code guidance.
Be Specific With Your Instructions
You must be certain and specific about the dress code, especially if you’re imposing a definite color palette. Also, ensure that your instructions are straightforward. For instance, say “Cocktail Attire in Pastel Colors.”
Set the Dress Code For Your Other Events
Make sure to incorporate the dress code for other events so guests will know any rules for the brunch, wedding rehearsals, or any events the night before the wedding. This is particularly important, especially if your venue is a restaurant or a club where jackets or coats are necessary.
Define Terms Of The Dress Code
Be familiar with the definitions of usual dress codes for weddings so that it is easier to identify what you expect your guests to wear. Dress code language can be tricky or sensitive for your guests to decode. Thus, define the dress code of your wedding explicitly and share examples to make it easier for them.
Let Your Guests Do The Talking
Have your family members, bridesmaids, and intimate friends spread the word regarding the dress code. In case it gets around that most lady guests will wear gowns rather than cocktail dresses, then odds are the news of wearing formal attire will reach some confused guests and they’ll have the details they need to make the right choice in attire.
Explore the Web and Make Prototypes
Making a Pinterest board to exhibit samples of inspiration for outfits is a good strategy for couples looking for a distinctive dress code. For instance, you may put together a “lookbook” of themed dresses, accessories and the like with hyperlinks to accessory stores your guests can check out. Sites such as Ezibuy can help you in this situation, and online services can be used to make “sample boards” that could be used as reference. This will make purchasing easier while clearly communicating the look you expect of them. And it lowers the chances of guests not following the dress code.
Present Your Dress Code In A Fun Way
Do exhibit your dress code in an inviting, and exciting manner. Don’t come at them as too aggressive because your guests may be a little affronted when compelled to dress specifically. However, you may approach them with fun illustrations and descriptions so that guests can feel more enthusiastic about the dress code.
For instance, do not tell them to come dressed in a certain color. Instead, say, “Please dress in shades of green and blue to complement oceanside nature as we celebrate on the beach.” Be as engaging as you can and let your guests know that their outfit will have an impact on the feel and look of your wedding day.
Talk About the Setting and the Venue
Inform your guests of what to expect in terms of the venue. For instance, let them know if the venue is on the beach, in a garden, or on a rooftop. These particular details will guide them on how and what to wear, especially with footwear. The comfort of your guests is important!
Add a Separate Note Besides Your Invitation Card
Include a separate note with your invitation card that highlights your wedding theme and dress code. This way, your guests will truly take note of the details regarding the dress code. Try giving them samples, color palettes or a mood board of your wedding’s theme.
Remember, encourage them, but do not enforce. It is not going to feel very nice at your event if you are enforcing your dress code. You have plenty of things to deal with your wedding, and being the fashion police can add stress to your wedding preparation. Just give your guests all the information they need, and they will deal with it.
Andrea Waters: Andrea is an aspiring fashion designer who loves designing women’s fashion and wedding dresses. She loves reading fashion magazines and enjoys writing about her passion. She currently writes for ezibuy.com and one day hopes to have her own fashion line.
