Congratulations! You’re engaged. You’re about to embark on the most exciting time of your life. You’ve made a commitment, and you’re going to be a bride. But there’s a lot to do before then.
The Ring
Have you got the ring sorted or are you going to choose it together? If it’s the latter, services like Your Diamond Guru can help you find the perfect diamond for your ring. Take some time to choose. When you see it, you’ll just know.
The Wedding Party
It’s important to choose your wedding party in the early stages. This will be the best man or woman, bridesmaids, and groomsmen. You may also need to decide on who will give the bride away. These are the people who can help you with the planning.
Engagement Party
Do you intend to throw an engagement party? Though it’s traditional, there are no rules that say you have to do this. Some people like a big bash to share their happy news with all their friends and family. Others prefer something a little more intimate. Whichever option you decide, start your planning.
Announcement
Will there be a formal announcement of your engagement? If so, spend a little time and work out how you’re going to do this. And we’re not just talking about a post on Facebook. Do you intend to take out an ad in the local paper? Before you make it public, make sure all the key family members and friends have been informed.
Photo Shoot
As part of the wedding package, it’s becoming popular for photographers to arrange an engagement shoot. This gives him or her time to get to know the couple before the big day. It also allows the couple to obtain some official photographs to celebrate their engagement. Shoots can take place anywhere. But it’s often somewhere symbolic to the couple.
Wedding Plans
You have a big day to prepare for, and so you’re going to need a plan. Decide whether you’re going to hire a wedding planner or whether you intend to organize the wedding yourselves. If you’re doing it yourselves, then enlist the help of friends. This is where the wedding party come in. You can delegate certain tasks to them to help take some of the strain.
Wedding Fairs
Some brides know exactly what they’re looking for, down to the tiniest detail. Others don’t know where to start. This is where wedding fairs can help. It’s a great opportunity to experience everything you need, all in one place. Give yourself a few hours to walk around. Gather as much information and inspiration as you can.
Setting a Day
It’s important to set a date and time for your wedding. Check with the venues to ensure this is available. Also, check with key guests before making anything official. Send out save the date cards.
The Gown
You probably have a rough idea of the kind of wedding dress you would like to buy. Do your research. Gather lots of ideas. Read magazines and blogs for inspiration. Try on lots of dresses to find a style that suits your shape and style.
There are lots of things to do between your engagement and your wedding day. But it’s important not to get swept up in all the preparations. Remember your reasons for getting married in the first place. Make sure you celebrate this time and make some memories. It will pass quickly.
